{"id":1276,"date":"2015-04-14T09:57:25","date_gmt":"2015-04-14T08:57:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=1276"},"modified":"2016-05-11T13:32:00","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T13:32:00","slug":"questions-you-should-ask-on-a-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/questions-you-should-ask-on-a-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Questions you SHOULD ask on a first date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s take a moment to be real about first dates. They\u2019re not all about flirting and being wined and dined. They\u2019re the first step in what could be your next big relationship. Now, we don\u2019t think that you should shine a spotlight in your dates eyes and start the hard questioning but a first date is a great chance to casually grill your potential new love.<\/p>\n<p><b>Here are 5\u00a0questions you should ask on a first date.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Do you have any brothers or sisters? <\/b>It\u2019ll open up that gateway to knowing what his relationship is like with his family. How he is with his family is a pretty good indication of how he is in relationships.<\/p>\n<p><b>What is ONE thing that you\u2019re dying to try. <\/b>Not everyone is an <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Epinephrine\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Epinephrine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"wikipedia\">adrenaline junkie<\/a> or a laid back beach bum so this answer could determine whether you and he are actually suited. If you prefer lazing on the beach rather than mountain climbing then you\u2019re going to want a partner who enjoys doing the same things. Nothing worse than being dragged along on an adventure holiday when you just want to chill.<\/p>\n<p><b>When was the last time you had your heart broken. <\/b>OK so you don\u2019t want to hear long, soppy stories about his exes. But if he\u2019s a guy who doesn&#8217;t know what it feels like to have his heart broken, he probably won&#8217;t think much about breaking yours.<\/p>\n<p><b>What\u2019s the longest you\u2019ve been in a relationship. <\/b>Again, you may not be wanting to hear about his ex girlfriends but it is a good question to suss out whether he\u2019s a commitment-phobe.<\/p>\n<p><b>Where do you see yourself in five years? <\/b>This is the biggie when it comes to questions you should ask on your first date. Where he sees himself in five years can help you figure out if he\u2019s looking for a relationship or whether he just wants a fling. If he says that he sees himself in a loving relationship then you\u2019ve got a good one there.<\/p>\n<p>What are your\u00a0<b>questions you should ask on a first date<\/b>? Tweet us <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/urbansocialcom\" target=\"_blank\">@urbansocialcom<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/21603273188459709\/\" target=\"_blank\">image credit<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s take a moment to be real about first dates. They\u2019re not all about flirting and being wined and dined. They\u2019re the first step in what could be your next big relationship. Now, we don\u2019t think that you should shine a spotlight in your dates eyes and start the hard questioning but a first date [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1277,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[629,69,636],"tags":[8,9,257,515],"class_list":["post-1276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-advice","category-dating-relationship-advice","category-first-dates-advice","tag-dating","tag-first-date","tag-love","tag-questions","country-uk"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\r\n<title>Questions you SHOULD ask on a first date - Urbansocial Dating Blog<\/title>\r\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"questions you should ask on a first date\" \/>\r\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\r\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/questions-you-should-ask-on-a-first-date\/\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Questions you SHOULD ask on a first date - 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