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When you\u2019re dating, it\u2019s easy to think that everything will be 100% perfect, all of the time. But that\u2019s not the case. There are times when you row, bicker or feel guilty over things that really don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

So regardless of whether you\u2019re casually dating or whether you\u2019re in a full on relationship, here are 3 things that you should NEVER feel guilty about.<\/p>\n

Checking out other guys.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019ve found the one it doesn\u2019t mean that you hot guy radar needs to be switched off. Of course we\u2019re not suggesting you do anything more than look – but it\u2019s OK to look at a hot guy if he walks past you. And you know what, it\u2019s ok for your guy to look if he sees a hot woman too. Just taking a look doesn\u2019t mean you love each other any less.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not in the mood for sex.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

In the early days it\u2019s not uncommon to want to be in bed with your man ALL. THE. TIME. But as things progress and life carries on, there are times when you\u2019re just not in the mood. AND THAT IS COOL. Seriously, your libido is a sensitive thing and if you\u2019re not feeling it then just don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Hanging out with your friends – or on your own.<\/b><\/p>\n

I love having my own space. I think there\u2019s nothing better than a glass of wine and some junk on the tv. And that\u2019s something that my boyfriend has to accept. If you want to spend a night out with the girls or have a night in on your own then do it. Never feel guilty about doing your own thing, this creates a healthy balance.<\/p>\n

Is there anything you\u2019d add to the list? Tweet us @Urbansocialcom<\/a><\/p>\n

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Image courtesy of Ambro at\u00a0FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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