{"id":140,"date":"2013-12-18T09:28:33","date_gmt":"2013-12-18T09:28:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=140"},"modified":"2016-05-11T14:05:54","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T14:05:54","slug":"finding-love-fast-in-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/finding-love-fast-in-2014\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding love fast in 2014!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a New Year and you\u2019re bound to have a list of resolutions as long as your arm. If nestled in-between getting fit and losing 14lbs is <em>finding love<\/em> then you\u2019re in the right place!<\/p>\n<p>Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, but now with the power of the internet, you no longer have to loiter around wine bars, go clubbing, raid your friends address book or stalk the aisles of the supermarket to find your Mr or Mrs Right.<\/p>\n<p>So if finding love is one of your goals for 2014? <b>Check out these 7 savvy resolutions to find love fast\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t be half hearted\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you want to find love then you need to make it your priority. Everyone is busy, but if you make looking for a partner one of your top priorities then you\u2019ll be surprised how fast you will get results. Set aside two nights a week to date and don\u2019t just talk the talk but walk the walk too. Consider this your new mantra for 2014\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cI need to my put energy into meeting someone because the odds are, it won\u2019t just happen.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><b>Know what you want!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There is no point wasting time dating someone who wants different things. Be sure to know what you want to get from dating, are you looking companionship or are you are seeking a life partner.<br \/>\n<b>Spoil yourself\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There is nothing sexier than someone who exudes confidence. Treat yourself to some new clothes, a new hair style, a make over or get down the gym &#8211; anything that boosts your confidence. How you feel about yourself definitely influences your confidence level and attracts people.<br \/>\n<b>Enjoy the search\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Take the pressure off and learn how to have fun. If you\u2019re piling on the pressure then you\u2019re going to be disappointed. See dating as a chance to meet different people and experience new things rather than focussing on the end goal. When you are relaxed to what comes your way, you can simply enjoy yourself which once again, makes you so much more attractive!<\/p>\n<p><b>Realise HOME isn&#8217;t always the answer\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Just because you\u2019re sat in front of your computer in your PJs trying to find love, that doesn\u2019t give you an excuse not to go out and get social. If you\u2019re going to have something to talk about on these dates you\u2019re lining up then you need to get out and experience life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Give people a chance\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So their profile doesn\u2019t mention salsa dancing and they\u2019re in to heavy rock whilst you like a spot of classical, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t have a good time together. Get chatting, the phrase opposites attract is there for a reason, give the unlikey a chance, you maybe surprised what you\u2019ll find.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quit taking things personally\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You know that you\u2019re fabulous, but not every one will agree and THAT IS ALRIGHT! If someone isn\u2019t interested then its not about you, its about what they are looking for. Even if you have a bad date, don\u2019t get discouraged or give up! Finding love takes commitment and hard work, but in the end, it will be worth it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a New Year and you\u2019re bound to have a list of resolutions as long as your arm. If nestled in-between getting fit and losing 14lbs is finding love then you\u2019re in the right place! 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