{"id":1669,"date":"2015-12-24T11:49:43","date_gmt":"2015-12-24T11:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=1669"},"modified":"2016-05-11T12:52:37","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T12:52:37","slug":"attract-the-relationships-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/attract-the-relationships-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Attract the Relationships You Want"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When we decide to get started on the dating trial then we usually have a pretty good idea of what we want from a relationship. Most of the time it&#8217;s unrealistic and idealistic but still you\u00a0get an idea of the kind of relationship you want.<\/p>\n<p>Here are\u00a05 Ways to Attract the Relationships You Want<\/p>\n<p><b>Know What You Want.\u00a0<\/b>Do you know exactly what you want in a relationship?\u00a0 Is it the same for every kind of relationship you have?\u00a0 Make a list of the criteria you have for a positive or healthy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Now you can look at each of your relationships and decide if it meets your requirements.\u00a0 If not, you have a starting point for creating what you want.\u00a0 All of us, at any time, have five choices regarding our relationships.\u00a0 We can accept the relationship the way it is and be happy.\u00a0 We can remain a victim to the relationship.\u00a0 We can change the relationship.\u00a0 We can change our perspective of the relationship. \u00a0We can leave the relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Change Your Beliefs about What You Deserve.\u00a0<\/b>If you want the best relationships have to offer, you have to believe you deserve the best.\u00a0 Otherwise, you will settle for less than the best.\u00a0Whatever you believe, you will attract.\u00a0 So start believing what you want is truly possible.<\/p>\n<p><b>Be Who Your Ideal Is.\u00a0<\/b>Don&#8217;t just expect your ideal partner to turn up and be the person of your dreams when you have so much work to do on yourself. Be the person who you want to attract, if you&#8217;re looking for someone whose happy &#8211; start being happy. Looking for someone whose positive about things and loves to travel, start being positive and book that trip. The changes start with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stop\u00a0rising to bait.\u00a0<\/b>In the most intimate relationships, we often engage in the bait rising.\u00a0 Our partner, or someone we\u2019re very close to, will say something that triggers us.\u00a0 From our subconscious mind, we react, and the rise\u00a0begins. \u00a0Every person that comes into a relationship, including ourselves, has some emotional baggage we carry with us.\u00a0 Drop the luggage and stop raising to any bait thrown your way. You&#8217;ll be happier and healthier mentally by doing so.<\/p>\n<p><b>Create a Sacred Space. <\/b>Create a\u00a0red velvet rope policy in your life. \u00a0Imagine you are entering a high quality event. You walk up to the attendant and hand him your high priced ticket and he opens the red velvet rope to let you through.\u00a0 Pretend your life is that high quality event and you get to decide who enters that sacred space. \u00a0There is a great\u00a0importance to\u00a0protecting your\u00a0energy and keeping your\u00a0life positive. \u00a0Before you let just anyone in, as who gets to enter your sacred space?<\/p>\n<p>Positive and high energy relationships will add more to your life than you can imagine.\u00a0 So start today and attract exactly what you want from your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we decide to get started on the dating trial then we usually have a pretty good idea of what we want from a relationship. Most of the time it&#8217;s unrealistic and idealistic but still you\u00a0get an idea of the kind of relationship you want. 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