I\u2019ve tried online dating and my profile seems to have proved to be successful at attracting attention from females. I am having no problems conversing and getting a first date but this is where my problems begin.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
Despite coming up with great locations for my first dates and ensuring that I am well groomed, I have been unable to secure a second date from the dozen or so women I have met. None of these women have given me a proper reason for not wanting to meet again, all of them giving the excuse that the chemistry is wrong or they\u2019d rather just be friends.<\/i><\/p>\n
My photo is recent and I think that the profile accurately describes me. However, something clearly changes the moment I walk through that door.<\/i><\/p>\n
What am I doing wrong? Is it the choice of venue? What do women expect on a first date and what is the optimum strategy for getting a second date?<\/i><\/p>\n
Matt, London<\/p>\n
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I know that it may seem harsh but perhaps the chemistry IS wrong. Chemistry is something that\u2019s extremely important when you meet a new partner and in the ruthless world of online dating, it\u2019s a make or break decision.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve already stated that you chose great locations but maybe you need to revert to a safe location like a cafe or pub because if you\u2019re choosing places that are maybe too fancy or too quiet you could be creating an awkward atmosphere before you even start.<\/p>\n
Also check your conversation;don\u2019t brag and make sure you take the time to listen.<\/p>\n
Try to make your potential mate feel that she is special, rather than just another in a long line of dates. But don’t show so much interest in the factual details of her life that you become predatory \u2013 don’t interview her.<\/p>\n
Lastly, don\u2019t let the first date drag on too long. End on a high note, leaving her wanting more.<\/p>\n
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