{"id":2506,"date":"2016-07-30T14:13:16","date_gmt":"2016-07-30T13:13:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=2506"},"modified":"2021-03-26T11:30:54","modified_gmt":"2021-03-26T11:30:54","slug":"6-things-over-analysing-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/6-things-over-analysing-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Things You’re Over-Analysing In Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

When it comes to dating, over-analysing in relationships is something we’ve all done. And if we\u2019re going to be honest with ourselves, we do it all the time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigmund Freud<\/a> once said \u201cSometimes a cigar is just a cigar\u201d.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

And he was right. Over-analysing in relationships is a one way ticket to disaster. But that doesn\u2019t make it any easier when it comes to going over everything with a fine tooth comb just incase you missed a vital sign or a spot of secret code. <\/span><\/p>\n

6 Common Things Daters Are Over-Analysing In Relationships<\/h2>\n

1. \u201cI cant make it tonight\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cancelling plans is annoying but it can also send you in to a tailspin wondering if he\u2019s actually trying to back out of a relationship with you. Likelihood is that something has just come up and he can no longer make it. If it\u2019s happening on a regular basis then it maybe time to have a chat but for just one off dates, try not to read too much in to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. \u201cI need some alone time\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

New relationships can be intense. You get caught up in that bubble of wanting to see and speak to each other all day long. We\u2019ve all been there. But at some point you\u2019re going to want to have your own space, and he is too. Recognise the need for space and just leave him to it. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Leaving your toothbrush at his place<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Hold your horses. Just because he\u2019s suggested you leave a few things at his place, it doesn\u2019t mean he wants you to move in. It just means that you can get to work easier in the morning. So resist moving your entire flat in to his.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s not sure if he wants marriage or kids<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Not everyone has the same outlook and some can take longer to decide on these things than others. And that\u2019s ok. It\u2019s worth sharing your feelings on this but if he doesn\u2019t reciprocate don\u2019t assume it\u2019s because he\u2019s not in to you or he\u2019s not serious – it could be that he just hasn\u2019t committed to that particular idea yet.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Meeting the family\/friends<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Meeting your family and friends can be a BIG deal. You may think they are wonderful and love spending loads of time with them but for an outsider to come in, knowing they will be grilled within an inch of their life, it\u2019s not a fun prospect. If he doesn\u2019t seem keen on meeting your family and friends yet, don\u2019t push it. It doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t approve of them or he doesn\u2019t like the sound of them, it just means he needs a bit more time. It also shows he\u2019s more interested in getting to know you, and you\u2019re more important in this situation right?<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Changing your Facebook status<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Let me be clear on something. Facebook status\u2019 aren\u2019t the defining part of any relationship. I\u2019ve been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years and I still have neglected to share that I\u2019m in a relationship. Am I ashamed or embarrassed about being in a relationship?<\/em> No. Am I not serious about my relationship?<\/em> No. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that I don\u2019t really feel the need to share it with the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Not updating your relationship status on Facebook has caused so many rows between couples, with the over analysing of just why he\u2019s trying to hide you away. But it could be, that he\u2019s just not worried about what the world thinks and that you’re more important than some social media tag. So if he\u2019s not changed that status yet then don\u2019t worry, so long as you\u2019re happy then your relationship is on the right track. <\/span><\/p>\n

So if you\u2019ve been wondering why he\u2019s not text back or why he forgot to add the smilie face when he did – then chill out. Once you’ve gone to the effort of finding a relationship<\/a>, making it work is the next big step.\u00a0Avoid over thinking and over-analysing in relationships and you\u2019ll find that you\u2019ll become happier, healthier and more in love than ever before.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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