{"id":2643,"date":"2016-10-19T14:13:30","date_gmt":"2016-10-19T13:13:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=2643"},"modified":"2019-12-09T12:55:53","modified_gmt":"2019-12-09T12:55:53","slug":"casual-dating-10-rules","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/casual-dating-10-rules\/","title":{"rendered":"Casual Dating:10 rules you need to know"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest, one of the (many) benefits of living in a world with so much dating technology at your fingertips is of course the opportunity for casual dating.<\/p>\n<p>Casual dating is the perfect set up. You can the pro\u2019s of a boyfriend without the commitment and the hassle. What more could you want?<\/p>\n<p>But even though it\u2019s a great way to date, you still have to follow some rules if you\u2019re going to make sure you don\u2019t fall in to any traps.<\/p>\n<h2>Here are the 10 rules you need to abide by for casual dating.<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Keep those emotions in check.<\/strong> Listen you need to know that if it\u2019s a casual relationship you\u2019re there\u2019s no room for over the top emotions or that L world. If you think you\u2019re falling for your partner then its time to ease back and not see them for a few weeks.<\/p>\n<p><strong>KEEP IT CASUAL<\/strong>. Make a rule you don\u2019t see them anymore than twice a week. After all, that\u2019ll be bordering on a real relationship right? And you don\u2019t want to cross that line.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t expect too much.<\/strong> So he\u2019s not text you back or he\u2019s not able to show up for a date. That\u2019s the nature of casual relationships, you don\u2019t have the right to expect him to be with you at all times or attend to your every whim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t expect them to be enthralled with the story of your day.<\/strong> Look you have best mates, work mates, parents, housemates &#8211; etc, if you have a boring story about work, then don\u2019t expect your casual date to listen to it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t invite them to meet the parents.\u00a0<\/strong>First up, how are you planning on explaining the nature of this relationship? Secondly,C.A.S.U.A.L &#8211; they don\u2019t want to meet your family and friends, sorry!<\/p>\n<p><strong>No I love you\u2019s.<\/strong> Don\u2019t embarrass yourself. I love you will just lead to one place &#8211; ghostville. Seriously, unless you\u2019re prepared to never hear from your casual date again, then hold back from the I love you!!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Set the ground rules.<\/strong> Whilst there are no hard and fast rules in casual relationships. But that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t set your ground rules so you both know the score.<br \/>\nHave a discussion if one of you crosses the line. The thing with a casual relationship is you will come across invisible boundaries. If that line gets crossed then you need to talk about it or else how can you be sure that you won\u2019t keep experiencing the same thing?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Know the truth.<\/strong>\u00a0They want a relationship, but just not with you. OK so that may seem harsh, but you just have to accept it. When you\u2019re in a casual relationship, both of you are just using each other until a better person comes along.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Keep standards.<\/strong> Just because you\u2019re enjoying a bit of harmless, casual fun it doesn\u2019t mean that anyone has the right to treat you badly or that you have to accept it. Seriously, if you\u2019re feeling as though you\u2019re being trampled on, just end it and walk away.<\/p>\n<p>What are your rules? Share them with us in the comments below or join us on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/urbansocialcom\" target=\"_blank\">twitter<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest, one of the (many) benefits of living in a world with so much dating technology at your fingertips is of course the opportunity for casual dating. Casual dating is the perfect set up. You can the pro\u2019s of a boyfriend without the commitment and the hassle. What more could you want? 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