TigerMobiles.com<\/span><\/a> asked 1500 couples in the UK between 18-30 a range of questions on their sex lives and smartphone usage habits. The results paint a worrying picture:<\/p>\n\u2022 75% of couples prefer to chat with online followers who they may never have met in real life than talk to their partner in the flesh.
\n\u2022 40% have turned down sex with their partner in favour of playing on their smartphone.
\n\u2022 85% admitted to texting or social networking the dinner table.
\n\u2022 74% said they got angry when they were interrupted while using a smart phone.
\n\u2022 18% revealed they have even checked their phone during sexual intercourse.<\/p>\n
Of course we all know that smartphones are important but they shouldn’t come at the expense of real-life relationships. But Facebook and Twitter (not to mention addictive apps like Candy Crush) are causing more people to quit activity between the sheets opting for some phone action instead.<\/p>\n
Here is a 5 step plan to help couples start communicating again and help you regain control over your sex life\u2026<\/p>\n
1. Try asserting some self-control over your phone.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re going out for dinner leave your smartphone at home, real conversation will feel liberating and get you into good habits.<\/p>\n
2. Use your phone as a sex initiator.<\/p>\n
Rather than letting your phone get in the way of sex use it instead to add some spice to foreplay. Send your partner a sexy pic, or “sext” describing a fantasy or your plans with him or her for the evening.<\/p>\n
3. Keep your phone outside of the bedroom or put it in a drawer out of reach.<\/p>\n
This will help you resist the temptation to check your phone in bed and if it\u2019s out of reach you will automatically switch your attention onto something else.<\/p>\n
4. Schedule smartphone down times.<\/p>\n
Whether it\u2019s for an hour a day or a few times per week, pick times with your partner to completely disconnect yourselves from your phone. You could even take this a step further by scheduling \u201cdate nights\u201d where smartphones are left at home.<\/p>\n
5. Reframe and Revalue.<\/p>\n
Learn to recognise when you\u2019re getting the urge to check your phone. When that urge surfaces recognise it as you\u2019re brain trying to deceive you into thinking you will miss something. The reality is you\u2019re not. Remember you are not your brain and you don\u2019t have to respond to everything it tells you to do.<\/p>\n
What do you think? Are you more into your phone than your partner? Share your stories with us on Facebook<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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