So you\u2019ve met someone, you\u2019ve taken them home, one thing has ultimately led to another and the next step is saying goodbye the next morning. Everyone has to let go and have some fun but that doesn\u2019t mean that a one night stand\u00a0can\u2019t turn in to a real relationship that lasts.<\/p>\n
Of course one night stands can turn in to something more, but in order to turn it from fling to thing, you need to reset the relationship. You have to be clear that you\u2019re not after bed buddy but an actual relationship.<\/p>\n
First off, if you\u2019re looking to extend your night of passion then it\u2019s important that you get the contact details before you say goodbye. It may seem a bit of an obvious step because you\u2019re not going to be able to google \u201cthe hot dark haired guy in the club.\u201d<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t wait for him to ask for your number either, don\u2019t play games, just ask and when you have it, if you want to see them again, reach out! Drop them a text just to break the ice. Remember to keep it classy, no sexting or saying how pissed you were last night. If you want to take your relationship further you\u2019ve got to show that you\u2019re not just someone to jump in to bed with.<\/p>\n
Also, when you go for a date, do something different from the usual bar or club. Show a different side to you because he already knows the party girl side.<\/p>\n
However, be wary that they may not be looking for something more than what they\u2019ve already got. If they don\u2019t reply or they don\u2019t seem interested then be honest with yourself and don\u2019t chase and call it quits.<\/p>\n
Do you have any stories on how you turned a fling in to a long term thing?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
So you\u2019ve met someone, you\u2019ve taken them home, one thing has ultimately led to another and the next step is saying goodbye the next morning. Everyone has to let go and have some fun but that doesn\u2019t mean that a one night stand\u00a0can\u2019t turn in to a real relationship that lasts. Of course one night […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":606,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,630,638],"tags":[8,247,213],"class_list":["post-605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips","category-lifestyle","category-love-and-sex","tag-dating","tag-one-night-stand","tag-relationship","country-uk"],"yoast_head":"\r\n