Forget sexting, it\u2019s boring and impersonal. Instead, let\u2019s go back to the old fashioned days of phone sex – you\u2019ve got to agree that there\u2019s something a lot more appealing about hearing someone\u2019s voice when it comes to getting up to something naughty.<\/p>\n
Phone sex is a super sexy way to connect with your bloke. However, and we\u2019ll just throw this out there\u2026it can be a little embarrassing if you\u2019re not used to doing it. But never fear, Urban Social has some top tips to help you sound sexy – not ridiculous – during phone sex.<\/p>\n
Plan Ahead<\/b>: OK so planning ahead doesn\u2019t make for the best sex but when it comes to phone sex you need to make sure that you\u2019d got enough privacy and time to get in to it all without interruptions.<\/p>\n
Have an idea of what you want to say and do before you start: <\/b>Another spot of planning here but practicing to yourself what you want to say will avoid you clamming up and getting nervous when it comes down to the action call. Start thinking about what you\u2019re going to be doing to yourself or what you\u2019d be doing to him.<\/p>\n
Get descriptive:<\/b> Remember he can\u2019t see you, he can only hear you so you\u2019ve got to describe what you\u2019re doing in very fine detail. So that\u2019s everything from what you\u2019re wearing to what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n
Your voice: <\/b>If you\u2019ve been together a while then you don\u2019t want to use the same tone that you use when you ask your other half to get dinner on the way home. Instead think about how you can manipulate how you sound. Lowering your voice and stretching out your words can ooze sex appeal.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t know what to say? <\/b>Ask questions. You don\u2019t want it to just be all about you, it\u2019s all about give and take so get him involved too.<\/p>\n
And above all, relax and have fun!<\/p>\n