{"id":684,"date":"2014-09-30T14:29:17","date_gmt":"2014-09-30T13:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=684"},"modified":"2016-05-11T13:50:00","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T13:50:00","slug":"booty-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/booty-call\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you a booty call?"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you first start dating it can sometimes be hard to know if there\u2019s something real going on or if you\u2019re just a booty call.<\/p>\n

Now of course there\u2019s nothing wrong with being a booty call if that\u2019s what you BOTH want but if one half wants something a bit more then it can get a bit tricky.<\/p>\n

So, just to clarify – here are some ways you can tell if you\u2019re in a relationship or just a number on his iPhone\u2026<\/p>\n

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  1. If your dates don\u2019t include traditional date like activities such as going for dinner or watching a movie and instead centre around heading straight to the bedroom.<\/li>\n
  2. If he isn\u2019t there when you need a chat or when important things are going on.<\/li>\n
  3. If the only communication you have outside of the bedroom is a text to discuss hooking up for more bedroom activity.<\/li>\n
  4. If you\u2019ve never met or he has no intention of you ever meeting his friends and family.<\/li>\n
  5. If he never stays the night.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The thing is, if you\u2019re a booty call – and\u00a0we\u2019re going to be straight with you here – the likelihood that it\u2019ll develop in to a real relationship is very slim. It\u2019s kind of like being the other woman and always hoping that your lover will leave their wife – you just know that it won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

    So if you can feel yourself falling and you really want something more, do yourself a favour and cut the cord as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

    We\u2019ve also found this brilliant infographic which should help you decipher if you\u2019re a booty call or a potential Girlfriend.<\/p>\n

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    We\u2019d love to hear your experiences of this, why not join in the conversation on Twitter<\/a>?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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