{"id":741,"date":"2014-10-07T15:03:18","date_gmt":"2014-10-07T14:03:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=741"},"modified":"2016-05-11T13:49:05","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T13:49:05","slug":"dating-dealbreakers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/dating-dealbreakers\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating deal breakers you shouldn&#8217;t ignore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dating is a crazy game. Getting to know someone takes time but no matter how hot or sweet \u00a0your date is, there are some red flags that go up that you simply can&#8217;t ignore.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve compiled\u00a05\u00a0dating deal breakers that you simply should never ignore&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lateness.\u00a0<\/strong>We are all late once in a while but if your date is continually late then you need to get out. The last thing you want is to be spending the rest of your life waiting around for someone to arrive. Although we don&#8217;t suggest throwing the towel in after one instance of\u00a0lateness\u00a0but if they are late more than three dates in a row &#8211; you know what to do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rudeness.\u00a0<\/strong>If your date is rude to waiters, taxi drivers or the guy behind the bar &#8211; drop them asap. You don&#8217;t really need a reason why this is unacceptable but if you&#8217;re with someone whose rude to those providing a service, they probably aren&#8217;t a very nice person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scary breakup stories.\u00a0<\/strong>If your date is telling you a scary breakup story and sounding a bit like a bunny boiler then take the hint and get out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bad sex.\u00a0<\/strong>You can&#8217;t judge based on the first time you&#8217;re with someone (everyone gets nervous and lets face it, sex can be awkward) but if you continue to have bad sex then it&#8217;s not going to work long term.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If\u00a0he\u00a0gushes about other women.\u00a0<\/strong>It maybe that he can&#8217;t shut up about his co-worker or his amazing best friend either way if he spends way more time than is normal going on about other women then you may find that emotionally he&#8217;s not ready to commit to you. Just a word of warning though: your date is entitled to have as many female friends as he likes and its perfectly normal to talk about them so don&#8217;t mix up unusually high levels of talking about other people with jealousy.<\/p>\n<p>So, what dating red flags do you think should not be ignored? Come join in the conversion on <a href=\"http:\/\/facebook.com\/urbansocialcom\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating is a crazy game. Getting to know someone takes time but no matter how hot or sweet \u00a0your date is, there are some red flags that go up that you simply can&#8217;t ignore. 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