{"id":866,"date":"2014-11-18T09:54:42","date_gmt":"2014-11-18T09:54:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/?p=866"},"modified":"2016-05-11T13:45:38","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T13:45:38","slug":"break-via-text","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/break-via-text\/","title":{"rendered":"How NOT to break up via text"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Apparently just sending a text with a simple \u201cit\u2019s not you; it\u2019s me\u201d isn\u2019t good enough these days.<\/p>\n<p>Have you seen the series of texts that Amy Nelmes, a journalist from Sydney posted on twitter? Her friend was dumped by someone who she was dating for just two months by text, but rather than just saying it\u2019s over, it was a detailed list of six points telling her exactly where she had gone wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The first point being \u201cYou refuse to update your relationship status on Facebook.\u201d but quickly escalating to what is our favourite point at Urban Social HQ \u201cYou are rude to my cat and that makes me feel uncomfortable.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Although both sender and receiver\u2019s identities have been kept under wraps we are thrilled that she kept the upper hand and didn\u2019t respond to the texts. And she also gave a reason for being mean to the cat &#8211; she told Australian news website, that she is allergic to cats, hence her \u201crudeness\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>She also says she will\u00a0never date another man with a cat.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-867\" src=\"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/9f7460f9a7814b98650ab60b2fdb5d940c277945.jpg\" alt=\"9f7460f9a7814b98650ab60b2fdb5d940c277945\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Apparently just sending a text with a simple \u201cit\u2019s not you; it\u2019s me\u201d isn\u2019t good enough these days. Have you seen the series of texts that Amy Nelmes, a journalist from Sydney posted on twitter? Her friend was dumped by someone who she was dating for just two months by text, but rather than just [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":868,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[629,635,77],"tags":[323,324,8,325],"class_list":["post-866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-advice","category-dating","category-dating-news","tag-break-up-texts","tag-cats","tag-dating","tag-viral","country-uk"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\r\n<title>How NOT to break up via text - Urbansocial Dating Blog<\/title>\r\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"how not to break up via text\" \/>\r\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\r\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.urbansocial.com\/blog\/break-via-text\/\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\r\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How NOT to break up via text - 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