Wesley, 46

Friends say I'm a gentle giant - I'm definately laidback - there's not much that can faze me! My ideal girl would be relaxed too she should make me laugh (don't worry, it's not hard!) I'm looking for someone who votes for things other than Big Brother and Pop Idol - a woman with a sharp mind is genuinely sexy. Being fit and healthy is important to me so I'd like that to be important to her too. I suppose I know what I want but I'm in no rush - what ever will be will be! Last weekend I met up with a bunch of friends & we laughed so hard our faces ached afterwards - that's a a great night! I often go clubbing & I'm always listening to my iPod & watching DVDs at home - its the best way to chill out! I'm keen to go to Canada this winter to ski. I like action holidays best, but chilling with friends is great too. I get a kick out of playing football & rugby in the winter & cricket in the summer. Reading plenty of books helps keep my mind sharp. Knowledge - rate it over money, power, status. Without it you will have none of the others!

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More about Wesley: Wesley is a 46 year old male from Southsea, Portsmouth who works in IT. Wesley is blue eyed with an athletic build and is a Virgo.